It seems like I could have created a brand new “marvel of the world” by getting into a relationship. It appears there’s a false impression on the market that autistic individuals can not have romantic relationships, and but right here I’m! Need to know the way? As a result of like everybody else, I have thoughts, feelings and emotions. Bizarre, proper?
We met on a relationship app like “regular individuals” would and developed emotions and an attraction in the direction of one another over time. Subsequent factor you understand, we have been collectively. I’m right here to let you know, it may well occur!
How? Communication, belief, and intuition! I focus on my autistic traits with him and focus on how I’m feeling every day with him. We belief one another and belief that we will speak in confidence to one another. He is aware of he can ask me something if he’s unsure and I belief that he’s asking out of real curiosity and willingness to study me.
Sadly, some people out there still do not want to date/kind romantic relationships with autistic individuals due to the misconceptions on the market referring to autism and due to preconceived concepts of who we’re. Belief your intuition with relationship! You deserve somebody who will deal with you in addition to you need to be handled. In the event that they begin to deal with you otherwise, negatively or begin appearing awkward round you while you point out your autism, belief your intuition. You deserve higher!
On the finish of the day, we will date and kind relationships. Can it’s onerous to seek out somebody? Sure, however it may well occur. It’s definitely worth the chase!